In her home garage-turned-studio, she created wood and stone carvings. Her home, friend Judith said, “It was a maze of art, an internal labyrinth. Everywhere you turned, there was something to look at.”
On Sept. 21, 2010, Donna died by suicide at age 58. Fittingly, her loved ones held her memorial ceremony on the beach, looking out across the sea. A full decade later, friends and admirers continue to post on her obituary website, sharing photos and memories, or even just wishes to have met her. Students who went online to track down a favorite teacher post their grief and the impact Donna had on their lives. One post is from a Chief Chris West.
“After an hour of discouragement and promises to make her life miserable, she left with my endorsement and approval, and the certainty that if anyone in her class made it through, she would be that one,” he wrote about when he first met Donna in 1974. “She did not let me down, and our friendship endured for 36 years. It is a colder world with her absence, but she left a light that continues to shine.”
Another, from Emilio Soria, simply read, “Donna, you will always be in our hearts.” He signed it, “From a Deep Sea Brother.”
In 2018, the Submarine Naval Base New London named their new dive locker facility Tobias Hall in honor of Donna. The name suggestion came from the divers themselves.
Sources:
Divers Institute of Technology: Suit Up
Hartford Courant: Donna Tobias Bravely Swam Against the Tide
Coffee or Die Magazine: Donna Tobias: The 1st Female Deep Sea Diver in US Military History
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Los Angeles Times: Navy’s First Female Diver Took the Plunge
Connecticut State Office of Military Affairs: Sub Base Names Dive Locker after Navy’s First Female Deep-Sea Diver
U.S. Naval Undersea Museum: photos, Donna Tobias: The First Female Navy Diver
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Find a Grave: Elmer Earle Tobias
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The American Prospect: Astronaut Sally Ride and the Burden of Being The First
National Institute of Mental Health: Depression in Women: 5 Things You Should Know